Vanessa Bohns
Contact
133 Statler Dr
377 Ives Hall Faculty Wing
Ithaca, NY 14853
United States
Professor Bohns studies social influence, compliance, consent, why it's so hard to ask for things, and why it’s so hard to say no. She is author of the book You Have More Influence Than You Think (2021, Norton). She received her PhD in social psychology from Columbia University and her AB in psychology from Brown University. Prior to joining Cornell, she taught at the University of Toronto and the University of Waterloo in Canada. Her research has been published in top academic journals in psychology, management, and law, and has been covered by media outlets such as the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Atlantic, Economist, and NPR. Her popular press and practitioner writing has appeared in publications such as the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and Harvard Business Review. She is currently an associate editor at Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, has previously served as an associate editor at the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology and Social and Personality Psychology Compass, and sits on the editorial boards of Journal of Personality and Social Psychology and Social Cognition. Professor Bohns teaches Psychology of Work (ILRID 1520), Morality at Work (ILROB 4760), Writing Persuasively about the Science of Persuasion (ILROB 2240), and lectures in the EMHRM program. She has been at Cornell since 2014.
Publications
Journal Articles
- Rachel Schlund, Roseanna Sommers, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2024). Three Ways to Make a Request That Doesn’t Feel Coercive . Harvard Business Review.
- Rachel Schlund, Roseanna Sommers, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2024). Giving people the words to say no leads them to feel freer to say yes. (DOI:10.1038/s41598-023-50532-3)
- Roseanna Sommers, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2024). Consent Searches and Underestimation of Compliance: Robustness to Type of Search, Consequences of Search, and Demographic Sample. Journal of Empirical Legal Studies, 21, 4-34. (DOI:10.1111/jels.12375)
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2022). Toward a Psychology of Consent. Psychological Science, 4, 1093-1100. (DOI:10.1177/17456916211040807)
- Mahdi Roghanizad, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2022). Should I Ask Over Zoom, Phone, Email or In-Person? Communication Channel and Predicted vs. Actual Compliance . Social Psychological and Personality Science, 13, 1163-1172. (DOI:10.1177/19485506211063259)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & Rachel Schlund. (2021). Consent is an Organizational Behavior Issue. Research in Organizational Behavior. (DOI:10.1016/j.riob.2021.100138)
- Erica Boothby, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). Why a simple act of kindness is not as simple as it seems: Underestimating the positive impact of our compliments on others. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 47, 826-840. (DOI:10.1177/0146167220949003)
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). Need a favor? Research suggests it's best to ask in person. Harvard Business Review.
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). Be Intentional About How You Spend Your Time Off. Harvard Business Review.
- Laura Giurge, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). You Don't Need to Answer Right Away! Receivers Overestimate How Quickly Senders Expect Responses to Non-Urgent Work Emails. Organizational Behavior & Human Decision Processes, 167, 114-128. (DOI:10.1016/j.obhdp.2021.08.002)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & Francis J. Flynn. (2021). Empathy and Expectations of Others' Willingness to Help. Personality & Individual Differences, 168(1), 110368. (DOI:10.1016/j.paid.2020.110368)
- Erica Boothby, Xuan Zhao, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). A simple compliment can make a big difference. . Harvard Business Review.
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2020). Three myths that stop people from asking for help at work. Harvard Business Review.
- Laura M Giurge, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2020). Three tips to avoid work from home burnout. Harvard Business Review.
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & Lauren DeVincent. (2019). Rejecting unwanted romantic advances is more difficult than suitors realize. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 10(8), 1102-1110. (DOI:10.1177/1948550618769880)
- Roseanna Sommers, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2019). The Voluntariness of Voluntary Consent: Consent Searches and the Psychology of Compliance. Yale Law Journal, 128(7), 1962-2033.
- Sebastian Deri, Daniel Stein, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2019). With a little help from my friends (and strangers): Closeness as a moderator of the underestimation-of-compliance effect. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 6-15. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2018.11.002)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & Daniel Newark. (2019). Power and perceived influence: I caused your behavior, but I’m not responsible for it. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 13(1), e12427. (DOI:10.1111/spc3.12427)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, Daniel Newark, & Erica Boothby. (2018). When do we feel responsible for other people's behaviors and attitudes?. Advances in Group Processes, 35, 159 - 179. (DOI:10.1108/S0882-614520180000035007)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & Lauren DeVincent. (2018). To reduce sexual misconduct, help people understand how their advances might be received. Harvard Business Review.
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2017). A face-to-face request is 34 times more successful than an email. Harvard Business Review.
- M. Roghanizad, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2017). Ask in person: You're less persuasive than you think over email. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 69, 223-226. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2016.10.002)
- D. Newark, Vanessa K. Bohns, & F. Flynn. (2017). A helping hand is hard at work: Help-seekers’ underestimation of helper effort. . Organizational Behavior & Human Decision Processes, 139, 18-29. (DOI:10.1016/j.obhdp.2017.01.001)
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2016). (Mis)understanding our influence over others: A review of the underestimation of compliance effect. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 25, 119-123. (DOI:10.1177/0963721415628011)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, Daniel Newark, & Amy Xu. (2016). For a dollar, would you..? How (we think) money influences compliance with our requests.. Organizational Behavior & Human Decision Processes, 134, 45-62. (DOI:10.1016/j.obhdp.2016.04.004)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, Abigail A Scholer, & Uzma Rehman. (2015). Implicit theories of attraction. Social Cognition, 33, 284-307. (DOI:10.1521/soco.2015.33.4.284)
- D. Newark, F. J. Flynn, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2014). Once bitten, twice shy: The effect of a past refusal on expectations of future compliance. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 5, 218-225. (DOI:10.1177/1948550613490967)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, M. Roghanizad, & A. Xu. (2014). Underestimating our influence over others’ unethical behavior and decisions. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 40, 348-362. (DOI:10.1177/0146167213511825)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & F.J. Flynn. (2013). Guilt by design: Structuring organizations to elicit guilt as an affective reaction to failure. Organization Science, 24, 1157-1173. (DOI:10.1287/orsc.1120.0787)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, K. Lucas, G.M. Molden, D.C. Finkle, E.J. Coolsen, M.K. Kumashiro, C.E. Rusbult, & C.E. Higgins. (2013). Opposites fit: Regulatory focus complementarity and relationship well-being. Social Cognition, 31, 1-14. (DOI:10.1521/soco.2013.31.1.1)
- J. Gu, Vanessa K. Bohns, & G.J. Leonardelli. (2013). Regulatory focus and interdependent economic decision-making. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 49, 692-698. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2012.11.008)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & F.J. Flynn. (2013). Underestimating our influence over others at work. Research in Organizational Behavior, 33, 97-112. (DOI:10.1016/j.riob.2013.10.002)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & S.S. Wiltermuth. (2012). It hurts when I do this (or you do that): Posture and pain tolerance. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 48, 341-345. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2011.05.022)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, M.J.J. Handgraaf, J.M. Sun, H. Aaldering, C. Mao, & J. Logg. (2011). Are social prediction errors universal? Predicting compliance with a direct request across cultures. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 47, 676-680. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2011.01.001)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & E.T. Higgins. (2011). Liking the same things, but doing things differently: Outcome versus strategic compatibility in partner preferences for joint tasks. Social Cognition, 29, 497-527. (DOI:10.1521/soco.2011.29.5.497)
- C. Zhong, Vanessa K. Bohns, & F. Gino. (2010). Good lamps are the best police: Darkness increases self-interested behavior and dishonesty. Psychological Science, 21, 311-314. (DOI:10.1177/0956797609360754)
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & F.J. Flynn. (2010). Why didn’t you just ask? Underestimating the discomfort of help-seeking. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 46, 402-409. (DOI:10.1016/j.jesp.2009.12.015)
- F.J. Flynn, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2008). If you need help, just ask: Underestimating compliance with direct requests for help. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 95, 128-143. (DOI:10.1037/0022-3514.95.1.128)
Books
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2021). You Have More Influence Than You Think: How we underestimate our power of persuasion and why it matters. W. W. Norton.
Newspapers
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2019). McDonald’s fired its CEO for sleeping with an employee – research shows why even consensual office romances can be a problem. The Conversation (republished by Chicago Tribune, MarketWatch, Quartz, Business Insider, and other media outlets).
- Roseanna Sommers, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2019). Would you let the police search your phone? We are much more likely to give consent than we think. The New York Times.
- Vanessa K. Bohns. (2014). Would you lie for me? Why we underestimate our own powers of persuasion. New York Times.. New York Times.
Book Chapters
- Vanessa K. Bohns, & F.J. Flynn. (2015). Empathy gaps between helpers and help-seekers: Implications for cooperation. In Emerging Trends in the Social and Behavioral Sciences. Wiley.
- G. Leonardelli, Vanessa K. Bohns, & J. Gu. (2015). Security seeking in a regulatory focus whodunit: The case of the relative orientation in behavioral economics. In The Handbook of Personal Security. Taylor & Francis.
- F.J. Flynn, & Vanessa K. Bohns. (2012). Underestimating one’s influence in help-seeking. In Six Degrees of Social Influence: Science, application, and the psychology of Robert Cialdini. (pp. 14-26). Oxford University Press.
Professional activities
- The Power of Persuasion. TEDx Cambridge, Boston Opera House, MA. 2023.
- Giving people the words to say no makes them feel freer to say yes.. Presented to Academy of Management. Boston, MA. 2023.
- Should I ask over zoom, phone, email, or in-person?. Presented to Academy of Management. Boston, MA. 2023.
- You knew what you were getting into: Honesty increases perceptions, but not feelings, of consent. Presented to Society for Personality and Social Psychology Annual Conference. Atlanta, GA. 2023.
- Consent Searches and Underestimation of Compliance: Robustness to Type of Search, Consequences of Search, and Demographic Sample. Presented to Conference on Empirical Legal Studies. Charlottesville, VA. 2022.
- Underestimating the difficulty of rejection leads to differences in perceived vs. experienced consent. Presented to Society for Experimental Social Psychology Annual Meeting. Philadelphia, PA. 2022.
- You knew what you were getting into: Honesty increases perceptions, but not feelings, of consent. Presented to Academy of Management Annual Conference. Seattle, WA. 2022.
- You knew what you were getting into: Honesty increases perceptions, but not feelings, of consent. Presented to International Association for Conflict Management (IACM) annual conference. Ottawa, Canada. 2022.
- Consent and the psychology of compliance.. Presented to Society for Personality and Social Psychology . San Francisco, CA. 2022.
- Don’t press send: Senders underestimate receivers’ felt compliance to respond to non-urgent off-hours work emails. Presented to Academy of Management. Vancouver, BC. 2020.
- Underestimating the positive impact of our compliments on others. Presented to Academy of Management. Vancouver, BC. 2020.
- Underestimating the value of face-to-face influence. Presented to Association for Psychological Science. Chicago, IL. 2020.
- Acquiescing to romantic advances at work : It’s harder to say “no” than suitors realize. Presented to Academy of Management. Boston, MA. 2019.
- The farce of consent: Psychological factors that challenge the notion of voluntary consent (chaired symposium) *Selected as an OB Showcase Symposium. Presented to Academy of Management . Boston, MA. 2019.
- Underestimating the difficulty of denying someone access to sensitive data. Presented to Academy of Management. Boston, MA. 2019.
- When do we feel responsible for other people’s behavior and attitudes?. Presented to Academy of Management. Chicago, IL. 2018.
- The voluntariness of voluntary consent: Consent searches and the psychology of compliance. Presented to American Law and Economics Association Annual Meeting. Boston, MA. 2018.
- Judging consent for self, other, and the reasonable person: Behavioral and psychological responses to digital privacy violations. Presented to Society for Judgment and Decision Making. Vancouver, BC. 2017.
- Judging the voluntariness of consent: A psychological critique of the Fourth Amendment standard. Presented to Conference on Empirical Legal Studies. Ithaca, NY. 2017.
- Empathy gaps in social influence: Underestimating the awkwardness of saying “no”. Presented to Association for Psychological Science Annual Conference. Boston, MA. 2017.
- The value of a helping hand: Do help-seekers accurately predict help quality?. Presented to Academy of Management. Anaheim, CA. 2016.
- For a dollar, would you..? How (we think) money influences compliance with our requests. Presented to Academy of Management. Vancouver, BC. 2015.
- I can't believe you agreed to that! Underestimating our influence over others’ unethical behavior. Presented to Academy of Management. Philadelphia, PA. 2014.
- The “Asking Tax”: Different expectations for requested versus volunteered favors and concessions. Presented to Academy of Management. Philadelphia, PA. 2014.
- Under- and over-estimating our influence over others at work (chaired symposium). Presented to Academy of Management. Philadelphia, PA. 2014.
- Guilt by design: Structuring organizations to promote guilt as an affective reaction to failure. Presented to Academy of Management. Boston, MA. 2012.
Honors and Awards
- You Have More Influence Than You Think named runner-up for Best Behavioral Science Book (2023), Global Association of Applied Behavioral Scientists. 2023
- Radar list of 30 management thinkers to watch (2022), Thinkers 50. 2022
- You Have More Influence Than You Think named a Best Book for Ethical Leaders (2021), Notre Dame Deloitte Center for Ethical Leadership. 2021
- Chancellor’s Award for Excellence in Scholarship and Creative Activities (2021), SUNY. 2021
- Elected Fellow (2019), Society for Personality and Social Psychology. 2019
- Provost Research Innovation Award in Social Sciences (2018), Cornell University. 2018
- Elected Fellow (2013), Society of Experimental Social Psychology. 2013